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2k18 lesson #11

" You can't take back words you never said"

Consistency is key

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1. Mind up yourself For being consistent you first need to inform yourself and your inner machinery that you are going to make a resolution and that is to be consistent! This is mind make-up, when you will do this then you will prepare yourself emotionally and physically for this. So mind up yourself for this! 2. Cash your NOW moment You will be sensible enough to agree that there are so many tomorrows but the thing is ‘are you certain to wake up tomorrow? No, right, can you go back into your past? Into your previous day, previous hour?’ Absolutely not, so what you are left with is a Now Moment. You need to cash your NOW moment. Make it happen what you are putting off till tomorrow! For being consistent remind this reality to yourself, get it injected in your thoughts! 3. Dream for your future By dreaming about your future you will feel motivated, by feeling motivated you will try your level best to be on the track of consistency with consistency. So, think big about f

Be disciplined..gentlemen & lady journal

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1. Eat hygienic food For being disciplined you can start with taking a hygienic food, what type of food you intake influences your body both emotionally and physically. So, you better get rid of all the manky stuff. Make it your habit to avoid taking junk food and slowly switch over from junk to hygienic food. By eating healthy you will be able to perform the rest of the tasks better, a feeble body can’t live a disciplined life. 2. No binge-eating Pull your hand from eating a lot, you are being cruel to yourself if you are stuffing yourself immensely. If you don’t love yourself then ok go on do binge-eating and shorten your life from 60-40, your choice! 3. An adequate amount of sleep Food, moderate eating and then comes the adequate amount of sleep, the intake of all three will set your temperament for habituating yourself in being disciplined, for being disciplined one first needs to be healthy a frail body and lazy bones won’t get you anywhere. So, you must take a re

How to be optimistic

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1. Before taking a nap ‘Think’ Before you go to sleep at night, make it your habit to consume a little time in thinking, think about the day that just has passed, think all the good things that happened to you. By doing this you will be able to think positively, you will be forced to ponder at the good things. 2. Begin each day with some goals in your mind Don’t start your day with a hollow planning, you must begin your day by having some goals in your mind, it will motivate you to perform your tasks in an enthused way. 3. Keeping tabs on your daily accomplishments At the end of the day look what you have accomplished so far and what is yet to be done, by doing this you will lessen your burden and will be hopeful in your up-coming texts. 4. Choose to be with those who are positive Spend your time with those who are very positive in their approach towards life and its problems, positivity breeds optimism, so first learn to be positive and this you can learn by catc

Be humble and polite

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1. Praise someone putting aside jealousy Never let the ill-feeling of jealousy ever dominate your heart and mind and the best way to defeat it is to admire and praise someone’s trait or beauty with an open heart. It is one’s greatness to admire someone, don’t hold yourself back from being great. 2. Know your talents but have no pride No matter how talented you are, how wealthy you are and how beautiful you are, you must keep your nose at a friendly level despite being aware of your traits keep no grain pride. 3. Express your standpoint without being ruthless For expressing your standpoint, it doesn’t mean only by being rude and ruthless you can convey your difference of opinion, no its not that, you can express your viewpoint in a soft tone too and that will sound more convincing. 4. Confess your mistakes To err is human, its natural to commit mistakes so always confess your mistakes without being reluctant. The person who is of very low strength is afraid to conf

How to be punctual

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1. Its highly mandatory in every aspect of life Take the answer from yourself, without being punctual can you lead a happy life and successful life? The answer is big NO! when you will ask this question then it means you have prepared yourself for being punctual. 2. The only remedy of your angry boss is your punctuality Punctuality at work is vital and must, its significance can’t be denied. Late arrivals at your job can blow the mind of your boss, so make him happy and secure your job by being punctual. 3. Punctuality is respected and honored by everyone A punctual person is admired and liked by everyone, he immensely earns respect and honor from others, he gains reliability and credibility where he goes. 4. Give a try to use a timer For keeping tabs on your daily tasks as how much time a task takes you can use a timer, it will help you to know how much time being consumed on each task, it will bound you to be better day by day. 5. Create a to-do-list and foll

Relationship Advice to Ladies and Gentlemen

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A lot of people say that “actions speak louder than words” in relationships. And that might be true to some extent. But you shouldn’t make the mistake of thinking that words don’t matter at all. There is still value in being a good communicator in a relationship; and you can really tell a lot about how a person feels about you based on what they say to you. Don’t be so quick to dismiss the bad things that he tells you because these can be huge red flags for serious issues that may plague your relationship in the future. And you don’t want that. You don’t want to be blindsided by any terrible behavior that your partner may have. And that’s why you really need to be paying attention to the things that he’s telling you. If you find that your partner is genuinely guilty of saying all of these things to you, then you should be worried. That is an indication that his feelings for you just aren’t ideal; and it’s probably best for you to just leave him already. You deserve to be with so

Advise to the youth

Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisors they succeed. Prov 15:22

Why Should your Children play Chess

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Chess is extremely helpful in brain development, particularly when it is played regularly from a very early age. Mentioned below are some of the most important benefits that children can avail by practicing chess on a regular basis – 1. Playing the game of Chess on a regular basis right from the childhood improves the learning, thinking, analytical power, and decision-making ability of the child. 2. Chess makes the child learn how to strategize aspects of the game and life. In addition, a child can also learn the importance of foresight, and planning. 3. Playing the game of Chess on a regular basis right from the childhood teaches the importance of being disciplined in life. 4. Practicing Chess regularly also aids in improving the self-confidence of the child, which is extremely essential for the child’s growth. 5. In the game of chess, a child learns to do a thorough analysis, research, and assessment of the situation before making any decision. Such an exercise provides mental

2k18 Lesson Nov

"I've come to realize that heaven is not for good people it's for forgiven people."

Forgive and Forget

1. What is the use of re-reading the old chapter Do you have a solid answer of this question that by not forgiving you actually are re-reading that rigid chapter over and over again, what are you getting in result? Any clue? Yes, its like you are wasting some very precious moments of your life by turning your back at them as you are holding something of your past that is gone. So, understand this that life is precious cherish it with good moments and make a moment worth-living by forgiving others. 2. You need to forgive because you need to be at peace As long as you are holding a grudge against someone then you actually are destroying your inner peace, so for your own tranquility of heart and mind just learn to let go things. 3. Move on with a new you When you forgive someone you ease your own self because you literally don’t linger anymore what had done rather you decide to move on. So, move on with pride with a new you. 4. Forgiving nature is the strength one’s char

A God centred Friendship

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The young man who makes his first entrance into the world of society, should know how to choose his friends, and next how to conduct himself towards them. Experience is, of course, the best guide, but at first starting this must come second hand, from an older friend, or from books. A judicious friend is the best guide

A message all the ladies..

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It don't matter what a man says to her, because she knows she's worth more than rubbies.🌷❤ 

A mission of God's children

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We are at the thick of the action to help those who can't help themselves. By teaching them how to help themselves. Matthew 28...

And Honourable man.

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Isaiah 32:8 An honourable person acts honestly and stands firm for what is right. Honour and respect. 

It continues about God's teaching

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Anyone who loves their life will lose it, while anyone who hates their life in this world will keep it for eternal life.

There is so much more in life.

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Life is more than just breathing and surviving. Life is like chess and chess can be better described through the word of God or vice versa...it all ends with God's word which is life.

Does your background or past influence your present time?

We are very conditioned by our genetic inheritance, social construct  and our experiences but I do not think anything other than our personal choices can determine what becomes of us- with the exception of dire circumstances. I've been following the developments in some of the very empoverished and marginalized Rroma. A beautiful group hoped that in a matter of 12 years, they hope to get at least one young Rroma youth out of there and help them integrate and succeed, in the hope that that person returns and inspires a couple of more- and in the span of decades, perhaps, a good portion of the community will be transformed. i took this example because we are talking about a community where abuse of every kind is rampant, there is no education (they have access to it but do not value or believe in it), children are sent out to beg at very young ages and the idea of working for an earning is quasi Non existent. Furthermore, many of them have been exposed to alcohol or drugs in uter