Forgive and Forget

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1. What is the use of re-reading the old chapter

Do you have a solid answer of this question that by not forgiving you actually are re-reading that rigid chapter over and over again, what are you getting in result? Any clue? Yes, its like you are wasting some very precious moments of your life by turning your back at them as you are holding something of your past that is gone. So, understand this that life is precious cherish it with good moments and make a moment worth-living by forgiving others.

2. You need to forgive because you need to be at peace

As long as you are holding a grudge against someone then you actually are destroying your inner peace, so for your own tranquility of heart and mind just learn to let go things.

3. Move on with a new you

When you forgive someone you ease your own self because you literally don’t linger anymore what had done rather you decide to move on. So, move on with pride with a new you.

4. Forgiving nature is the strength one’s character

The person who has a forgiving nature is the one who is very strong of his character, it is the test of one’s strength that how soon he forgets what damage others have done to him, no matter what but his nature is unshakable.

5. We all are different, digest this reality

If you are good by nature then don’t expect others to be exactly good like you, we all are different and this you need to understand, everyone has his own plus points and negative points, focus on your negative points to mend them and focus at others plus points as everyone have some rough edges. Digest this reality so it can be easier for you to forgive someone.

6. Forgive but stay alarmed

Forgiveness doesn’t mean that you should close your eyes and get dumped by the same person again, NO, forgiveness means no grudge but staying alarmed, don’t let yourself be a toy in other’s hand.

ChrisAchiao(Hlonela Christian Mzilikazi)

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